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Camping Weekend06.09.07

sooooo, i was able to convince john and stephen that it would be a good idea for us to spend a weekend out in the woods with no food and no hair dryers (more a concern for stephen than for me – and less so every day). we found our way up to the greater clarksville area loaded down with camping gear water and books. the hike in had us almost jogging to cover the three and a half miles before nightfall. we almost made it. instead we got to set up camp in the dark. i took a quick bath in the river before turning in for the night.

the next morning we woke up, adjusted camp a little and set up our hammocks.

why did we need to adjust our location? b/c that first night there was another group camping there that had taken up all the waterfront property, leaving our little tents all crammed together as if they were huddling for warmth.

 

the place was amazing, and while we did get visited by a few more “sight seers” than we might have liked (thanks to a new and apparently very fat-person-accessible trail) it was incredibly peaceful and beautiful there.


stephen decided by mid-day that he should probably get a bath as well. i decided to capture that decision for
posterity.

i spent a ton of time on a big rock up above the waterfall. it was a great spot for yoga and for reading. now would be as good a time as any to mention what i wanted to get out for the “guys weekend”. i wanted some time away from my life and from my activities that had effectively become my life. i’ve been thinking about the direction i was heading and what was important to me and where i wanted to be 5 or 50 years from now. i’d been praying for clarity in my career and my personal life and just looking to find some clear direction but felt like i was NEVER providing any time to listen for answers. i was putting no effort into figuring out the kinds of things that should shape the rest of my life. sooooo, we got away for the weekend.

i read two books (“the Jesus i never knew” and “what Jesus meant”) and also took notes on Thessalonians for an article that i’m submitting to Slate.com as a sort of “application” to write a column for them. btw, i can’t recommend the first book enough. the second is good as well, but “the Jesus i never knew” is phenomenal. thanks to emily for giving it to me. that along with song of solomon (another gift from her) have been the two things that have had the most profound impact on my life in the last year.

soooo, anyway, this little seedling was growing on a rock outcrop up where i spent my time reading. i liked it, so i took its picture. there’s nothing artistic or metaphoric about it to the best of my knowledge.

this was the view from my tent in the morning – wonderful. i can not describe how amazing it feels to wake up outside with the constant sound of rushing water at your ear soothing your sleep all night and unzipping the tent (definitely not a metaphor) to see this.

here is a team photo from the second morning. notice we’re still looking to be in pretty decent shape. you can compare or contrast that to how we looked after our hike out

a shot of the base of the waterfall.

here’s a shot of the whole waterfall scene. i was really squatting pretty low to take this one. : )


here i am trying to keep my pants from flying off while john is snapping a photo. if the photo had been snapped a half second later, this blog might have garnered an “r” rating. stephen laughs

so we spent our days swimming in the pool at the base of the waterfall, reading, napping and just spending time together. i came back feeling so energized and feeling such clarity that i couldn’t wait to set up camp there again. it’s just too easy to spend all day long doing something and never take time to do nothing. i love my life right now, and i love the people who are in it, and the opportunities i have been presented, but it seems like when i’m looking out at what’s next on my calender all day every day i never spend any time looking around at what’s going on right now.

anyway, as promised, here’s the pic after we got back to the car. 48 hours with no food followed by a very vigorous one and a half hour hike with a pretty heavy pack leaves you looking like this…..

btw, charles’ tip to anyone who hasn’t done it before on how best to break a fast. what you should NOT do is drink a TON of gatorade and then go to agave and eat a giant steak and a lot of chips and salsa. apparently this is not the way to ease your body back into solids. that advice costs you nothing. until next time!

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Volleyball End of Season Tourney04.29.07

we went to huntsvegas for our end of the season volleyball tourney with the tsunami club i’ve been working with. below are a few picks of my team (13 black). we had a tough opening day, but did manage to upset the #1 seed in the tournament on day 2 before bowing out.

below, allie poses for a picture after serving an ace.

here are mary michael and mary kate who weren’t playing but came out to support the team. mary michael leads the team in ribbons AND bows. there’s some funny story about them running into a hobo on the way there, but despite seven separate attempts by the girls to relay the story, i still have no idea what they were talking about.

here sarah and zach sit with the team prior to our sunday match. mary michael has stolen my hat and allie is chewing on a whistle.

it was a great season of coaching. it was really just a tremendous boost in my life that when work sucked or i had a long day i could walk into the gym and just enjoy the optimism and enthusiasm of these girls. whether it was being told silly stories about class or being shown fingernail art or just playing, those two practices a week became two of the brightest spots on my weekly calendar. thanks to sarah for allowing me to help out.

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My Second Nica Trip04.16.07

i took a second trip to nicaragua in april. this time brent nix (the mystery 4th in our group) and john headed down as well. it was john’s 3rd trip and we were taking a look at a couple of places that he had visited before as well as some new places that peter wanted to show us. first we visited a school in tipitapa. these ladies work at the school. the students weren’t there that day, though, b/c the teachers were on strike and the town pump was out so no one (including the school) had any water. in case anyone’s unaware, it’s consistently mid-90’s there with extreme humidity. needless to say, being without water isn’t a treat. our tour giude that day was marcia who is a councilwoman in the area.

these kids were just sitting in a trash pile on the edge of town.

and here a little dude in his drawers peddles his bike down the street.

at the end of day 1 we visited a park that looks down on managua. there they had this giant tom landry statue. we thought it was cool that nicas are cowboys fans.

on day 2 we went and visited peter’s lot at the beach. this beach is about and hour or so outside of managua.

when you have a lot at the beach in nicaragua, your neighbor may have a big hog in his yard. it’s a little different than los angeles, but not entirely unlike gulf shores.

we stopped at a road side stand to get some quesillos. it’s pretty hot during mid-day, so the dogs were just chillin out on the floor.

it’s pretty common for kids to work down there and here we’ve got some kids running cattle down the street.

the next day we visited matagalpa. we visited a community on a mountain side that had some of the most extreme poverty i have ever seen. here a woman washes her children in a bucket.

we went to a school about a quarter mile from there and met the school president (who we gave a soccer ball to). when asked what they wanted most, they said a soccer ball, a door and windows. we’ve gotten them 1/3 of the way there and are working on the rest. these kids also used to have a latrine at the school, until a church built over the top of it. good work guys. : (

this is the tienda of a woman who is the community leader for another community in matagalpa. these people two were oppressively poor, and were forced to their location (near the sewage pond) b/c their former community had been washed off of a hillside nearby.

here are some kids in that same community.

this kid was hitching a rid on a truck into matagalpa.

a picture from outside a women’s clinic in matagalpa.

we headed to esteli to stay that night with our good friend maricella at cuallitlan. she has a great little place there and wonderful food for phenomenal prices. also, she was an especially welcome find on our first trip out there when john and i were still struggling with our spanish due to her perfect english. here we are with her the next morning.

on the way out of town we stopped at la casita. here we encountered some kids enjoying the swings there.

i took this shot of some flowers at la casita as well

the next day we headed out to leon to check out this “sister city” of granada. this dude wanted to talk to the girl here, but just couldn’t quite get up the nerve.

here is a building on the streets of leon.

here is a little girl inside a church there.

and a woman carrying a tired little one home.

we ended up going back to esteli for one more night with maricella and then went out to hit a slot canyon she had recommended. this was a bit of a sketchy experience as you basically turn off a road and have people running up to you offering to be your guide. now, you see NO ONE else there who’s visiting the canyons, and you’re pretty deep in. we figured we had at least 90% odds of surviving and 80% odds of our truck being there when we got back from the canyon. we took the odds and went with my trademark approach: be sure to reference that we’re visiting people with fabretto and mention that we will likely be sending others to come visit the same place.

here we are with our guides.

and here was a woman washing clothes in the river there.

john and i paused for a team photo in the canyon.

now for the “animals” portion of this posting.

after the canyon we went back to esteli for the opening of some new buildings with fabretto’s esteli center. the japanese embassy had contributed substantial funds for the opening and they had some ambassador (who looked tremendously like one of john and yoko’s kids) there for the ceremony. here’s a picture from the new building at the center of a house across the street.

here’s a picture of one of nicaragua’s famous “widow maker” shower heads. the water is heated in the shower head, and yes those are electrical wires sticking out of the shower head.

that is from a hotel on top of a hill in matagalpa.

we went back there for one night to meet with maricia (john may have to correct me on a couple of names) and to get a little better feel for the city. here we are out to dinner with her and her kid. he and i function at about the same level, so it was a pretty fun dinner.

here’s a church in granada “in the gloaming”

and here’s another church in town.

a side public service announcement. the number of beggars and hookers has doubled in the last year down there. this is a direct result of american and european tourists giving money to both groups of people. i would challenge any of you who visit here or anywhere else to give money to organizations, not individuals there on the streets. there are obvious exceptions, but in general giving people money in the streets just encourages more people to hang out in the streets and ask for money. at a minimum, it is better to provide a bottle of water or a banana versus a dollar. that’s my brief visit to the soap box. anyway, back to the pics….

this guy was just driving around on his way out for a date.

so, i might as well mention that we set a new record for getting stopped for driving while white (or DWW). we were actually pulled over four times and bribed our way out of it twice (once with five bucks and once with a bottle of water). there are three potential “outs” for one when pulled over for DWW. one is to pretend you have NO understanding of what they’re saying and hope they get frustrated and leave you alone, one is to try and rebut everything they say and the final option is to pay a bribe. john and i always went with option two until it became obvious that option three was necessary.

anyway, we spent one last night in granada visiting el club (http://www.elclub-nicaragua.com/) and polishing off a bottle of flor de cana.

as you might imagine. we were pretty beat by the end of the trip, but not as tired as this guy.

until next time…………

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